It took a little while, for Eleanor to answer, mostly because she wasn't sure how to answer, at first. She hardly felt as though she was in any position to make suggestions, she didn't know the first thing about this sort of stuff, either, and, furthermore, she still had trouble believing that this was a conversation she was even having right now.

So it took a while, because she didn't even know what to say. Until she did, and then she couldn't help but feel like it was kind of perfect.

I think that's something we'll both be learning together.

Do you think that's accurate? That your "love language" is spending quality time?

THAT felt like something that would be useful for Eleanor to learn.